Elluh_PaNDa

Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference in your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?

I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner. All is well

Death by Ella Tantiado

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DON’T DWELL on SOMETHING that you CAN’T CHANGE

A recurring problem may make you feeling sad or upset, but you don’t have to take that lying down. Even you feel like your hands tied and you may not be able to do much to change the situation. Day will come it will change. Never waste days that could be happy and productive by dwelling on something that you can’t change right now. Pour that sad or angry energy into something that lifts you up and has the potential to change your life in a positive way. That way, this experience will count foe something important.

EXPERIENCE

Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you want. But it’s often quite valuable nonetheless. If you have received a lot of lessons and experiences during to pursuit of something that’s important to you. Do not think that experiences is not valuable, they will be in the future. So don’t discount them, and don’t forget them. Invest those experiences in your bank of wisdom. Something you learned in your journey will always help you find great success in the future.

MISTAKE

A mistake is not the end of the world. In fact, a mistake can be a very good thing. It can inspire you to look closer at what you are doing, and uncover potential flaws you hadn’t seen before. It can also validate that you are doing what you want to be doing. That’s how you need to see an unintentional mistake. Recommit to your effort. See it as empowering. See it as a chance to evolve. Use it to make something better and stronger. Use it to know yourself better.

A GOAL

We have all heard that there is supposed to be a pot of gold at the end of every rainbow. But think about it- have you ever gotten close enough to a rainbow to find a spot beneath it? I’m sure you didn’t. That’s why you don’t really know if it is true that there’s a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow.
A goal of ours is something like that pot of gold that seems so elusive. We don’t know if it is really exists for us or if it is closer than we think. We will make it seem far off and hard to reach if we won’t try to figure out how to get there. But it is already exists within us, all we need to do is to work toward that goal in a more realistic way and surely we will reach and have it.

Do not Punished Yourself

Do not judge yourself too harshly. Even you always strive for perfection, and when you think you have fallen short, do not punish yourself by going over and over the perceived failure in an effort to figure out what you did wrong. Sometimes your efforts don’t work out as you planned, and it has nothing to do with you at all. Therefore, instead of looking for reasons to blame yourself, explore the possibility that something better happened instead.

KEEP DREAMING AND BELIEVING

An idea that looked great on paper may not work out so well in the three-dimensional world. That may be very discouraging, but it isn’t the end of the world. In the fact, a few small disappointments could actually lead to something far better that we first imagined. It is important to take stock of and evaluate what isn’t working, but it is equally important to figure out what is working, and what might work in the future. We just need to keep dreaming and keep believing, and we will eventually see our vision manifest in the real world.

Be confident of who you are

Sometimes we are tempted to pretend we know more than we do when trying to impress someone special. But the more we fear being ourselves and being confident in who we are, the more opportunities and chances for happiness we will miss. We must make a vow to ourselves to start working on loving ourselves better. We deserve it.

A kind Word

A kind word can change someone’s day. Sometimes a kind word can even change someone’s life. It’s even more powerful when the word comes from you, and you give it to yourself. If you’ve been feeling down on yourself because of some trouble you faced or something that didn’t work out quite right, stop for a moment and make a conscious effort to be kind to yourself. The words you say to yourself-whether they are positive or negative-will certainly have an impact on you and what happens in your life. You can turn a down period around just by sending kind words out into universe.

DON’T DWELL on SOMETHING that YOU CAN’T CHANGE by Ella Tantiado

is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License.

Author: Elluh_PaNDa

Death

Do Not Give up Immediately

DON’T DWELL on SOMETHING that YOU CAN’T CHANGE